Feliz Navidad!

Christmas dress has been adorned and Emma enjoyed her first candle light service. From our family to yours - Merry Christmas!

Murray Family Holiday Letter

Happy Holidays to you and yours!!

Shortly after Christmas last year, we learned that our family would be growing in September. We were able to share the exciting news with both sets of grandparents-to-be together, which given the distance was quite the special experience! Needless to say, the impending arrival shaped much of the rest of our year! In addition to our news, we knew of at least 1 baby being born each month of this year – and even had several months with 3 new bundles of joy! Emma is blessed to have so many friends her age to grow up with!

Steve has stayed busy working at Macalester and really enjoys what he’s doing. We invested in a rental property early in the year and his connection with students has provided excellent renters and an overall good situation. Steve spent a lot of time this spring preparing the house for renters, after which he transitioned his focus on to our house. He began a full basement remodel early this year and has done a wonderful job expanding our space. Literally every room in our house (except for maybe the kitchen and bathroom) has been rearranged in the process. He’s looking forward to the day when house projects are not quite so intense, but has enjoyed the power tools and help of family and friends. His ‘contractors fee’ was a large flat-screen TV that has made this football season that much more enjoyable!

Katie continued to work as a postdoctoral fellow at a private practice in Burnsville. Once the wave of morning sickness wore off, she spent much of her time preparing for the national licensing exam for psychology. It was a huge relief to pass that on the first try and after jumping through a few more hoops, she became licensed as a clinical psychologist in November of this year. She’s returned to work and feels blessed to be able to do so part-time and still enjoy several days home with Emma. Katie’s aunt has generously been watching Emma during the day while Katie’s at work and Emma and her daddy get to spend Thursday nights together – a win-win for all! Katie accepted a position on our church council and has enjoyed the opportunity to get more involved in the community. She’s also continued to stay active with her bookclub, a group that expanded by 3 babies this year as well!

This year we were able to spend a few days in January in Nashville while Steve had a conference and enjoyed Easter in New Mexico. Once again, weather in MN was unseasonably warm while we were gone (and we had snow Easter morning). Much of the summer was spent in preparation for the baby, but we enjoyed several visits with Katie’s parents and time with Steve’s family as we were able. Thanksgiving was a special treat as the whole Murray family was together for a holiday – a first in many years!

Emma made her grand entrance on 10 September and changed our world in ways we’re continuing to discover. She is growing like a weed and is an absolute joy. Over Thanksgiving she really began to giggle and we’re excited to bring her to NM for a few weeks at Christmas to spread some cheer as only a new baby can.

Wish you and yours a blessed holiday season and joy in 2010!

~Steve, Katie, and Emma

Leavin' on a jet plane

And if I thought packing for one stunk, packing for two is even worse! I'm paring down what I'm bringing for me to be able to bring more for Emma. Now that's love.

Perspective

I haven't felt overly Christmasy yet this year. I think it's because I haven't been out hitting the malls and doing much along the lines of Christmas shopping. Steve and I made the decision to really reign in on the Christmas gifts this year - like much of the rest of the country, we're needing to be a bit more serious about having (and following) a budget and so some adjustments have been made. It makes me a bit sad to think that I have really fallen in to the commercialization of Christmas and that Christmas cheer seems to come with Christmas spending. It's time to re-group, come back to center, and get some perspective. Oh, and bust out some Christmas cheer!

Blue Christmas

Years ago, gosh, 15 maybe, my best friends little sister died. That year her family put blue lights on the house and the Barbie ontop of the tree wore a blue dress. I spent several days leading up to Christmas with them, feeling sad for their loss, but from a 14 year old who hadn't faced such a loss perspect. Who knew that 9 years later I'd really understand her experience first hand.

As sad as that Christmas no doubt was for them, it also gave me one of my favorite Christmas memories and a future tradition I hope to share with Emma. My best friends mom took us out for dessert and to drive and look at Christmas lights. I'm taken back to that night every time I hear Amy Grant sing Grown Up Christmas List.

Last year our family had two sudden losses on Christmas Eve. I know this time of year is full of joy for many, but it can also be a blue Christmas when we can't be with the ones we love the most. I hope those for whom this Christmas is especially blue may be able to make precious memories to cherish for years to come. Maybe an old casset tape of Amy Grant's Christmas could help.

Thankful for family

For the first time in my life with the Murrays, everyone was together for a holiday. There was great food, Loaded Questions, bowling, football, and many other holiday traditions. Although there are always struggles, there's a lot to be thankful for, and those 15 other people helped bring us back to center. Emma's a lucky girl to have so many wonderful people on both sides of her family to love her as she grows.

"I love her!!"

This was heard repeatedly over Thanksgiving weekend by Emma's cousin Clare. The two are the little 'princess cousins' and Clare seems happy to share her title! It was so fun to see the kiddos together and imagine all the adventures in the years to come. I know I have fond memories of times with my cousins!

Caution

Super happy baby video to follow. May result in repeated viewing.

Up!

We loaded Emma in a sling and took her to the movie Up! at the Riverview Theater today. Yummy popcorn, a sweet movie, and a sleeping baby. Does it get any better??

And then there were 3

Animals that is. And people I guess. We're evening the playing field tomorrow. We've made the grown up decision to give Charlie to a friend. He's a sweet dog, beautiful, playful, aloof, but his energy level is just too much for us and our growing family. These friends house sat over Easter and after I'd joked that they should take a dog, they said they were really interested in Charlie. As it became increasingly apparent to both of us that this was just a bit too much, we got in touch and worked things out. He'll have a new doggie brother, Riley, and may even learn some tricks from people who have time and knowledge to train a dog. It'll be sad to see him go, but we know it's best for our family.

Bimbo

My aunts gave Emma a Bimbo seat at my shower this summer. Well, at least that's what they called it. We'll probably steer clear of implying that our daughter's a bimbo. At least until she's old enough to talk.

You can call me. . .

Doctor. Mommy. And now Clinical Psychologist! My license arrived in the mail yesterday. This means I'm now responsible for any potential mistakes I make. Yikes.

But!! No longer do I have to stumble over myself as I try to explain that, no, I'm no longer in school, I have my doctorate, but no, I call myself a psychologist. . . Yet.

2/12

Happy birthday baby Emma!! You are growing and changing right before our eyes! I held you as you ate early in the morning, thinking back to how tiny you looked 2 months ago when I stayed up with you that first night. You don't look as tiny anymore - you've gotten 2'' taller and have gained 5 lb 7 oz of beautiful baby chub. I wish I could bottle moments like that up so I can accurately recall them forever. I guess I'll have to keep doing my best to savor each precious moment with you, sweet girl!!



Love,

Mommy

Ch-Ch-Changes

A month ago Emma HATED the swing. And the bouncy seat. And pretty much anything that meant she wasn't being held. Now she just hates her carseat (mostly when it's in the car).

Fall break!

Daddy made a few short days during Macs fall break and Grandma & Grandpa Murray came up to visit. They brought a yummy lunch and enjoyed time staring at me, since I'd changed sooo much since they saw me last - 4 days after I was born! Mommy & Daddy took advantage of the visiting grandparents to take their first trip out together since the drive to the hospital - they ran a few quick errands and thought it was sort of nice being able to run in and out of a store. I can't wait to see Grandma and Grandpa (and all my aunts, uncles, and cousins) at Thanksgiving!

Family pictures

We were given the gift of a photo session with a family friend - Kyle Johnson - for Emma's birth from my aunt & uncle. We went last Thursday and had pictures taken, getting the link to the site on my birthday (another bonus of not being busy at work yet - time to sit and gaze at Emma). The link will only be up for another week and a half, but we'll be ordering some of the beautiful prints so we can continue to gaze!

http://www.kylejohnsonphotography.com/clients/emma/

If anyone in the Mpls area's looking for a photographer - we'd highly recommend Kyle!

Going green

We got Emma in cloth diapers this week. So far so good!

Blame it on the baby brain

My 28th birthday was Wednesday. My first day back to work was Wednesday. Anyone else see a problem with this? Best of all, no one made me go back to work on the 4th. I didn't have leave that expired forcing my hand. I had decided to go back the beginning of November. (Granted, family finances and slow insurance reimbursement got me back a bit sooner than I would've chosen, but I got to set the date.) Sigh.

Best part of going to work for the first time after becoming a mommy - coming home to your baby.

Best part of going to work on your birthday - cake at the end of the day!

I'm ready for my close up

Child of the 80's

I love how trends come back. I remember rocking leg warmers, although I think I may have only had black, nothing as cool as Emma now has. Makes me want to wear a onesie and hang out around the house with awesome leg warmers on. I might pass on the cloth diaper though.

(Yes, I know this outfit is a little crazy, but it was chilly and her jeans were dirty, so I tossed the leg warmers on with the dress. I think she pulled it off though, don't you?)

The Amazing Emma

I was trying to come up with a fancy stage name for Emma, you know, for when she's displaying all of her tricks, but I'm drawing a blank. She does, however, have some tricks now!



*She can quickly move her head side to side to see what's going on in the world around her. *She has found her fist and loves spending time sucking away on it.

*She has mastered the ability to nap in her swing (or bouncy chair or once today even her crib!). *She has demonstrated tremendous lung capacity, particularly on car rides.

*And best of all, she can turn the world on with her smile!



We're pretty impressed by our little girl!

Fall Fun!

We spent a morning at a local orchard. Emma had so much fun, she slept right through everything! It was fun to think of how different it will be next year when she's old enough to be checking things out!

Daddy love

Emma's first Halloween was appropriately spent at a Gopher game - she made a very sweet little football!

Holy cow am I behind. . . I guess that's what having a beautiful little baby around does for you! Here's a photo summary of what we've been up to recently!

1/12

Day 32

1 month old - don't you think she's really smiling?!

Emma has made it through 1/12 of her first year. Sigh.

More firsts!

First big girl bath with daddy

First bottle (not such a huge fan)

2nd attempt at the 1st bottle later that day. . .

Emma's first snow on the day of her first 5k (of which she walked about 1/3) - both of which happened on her 1st month birthday

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Mommy's girl

Most people who see Emma initially think she looks like her daddy - and then they see my baby pictures. :o)